January 11, 2025, 11:52:58 pm

So I ran away today...

Started by Mindfreak, December 13, 2010, 03:48:54 pm

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petik1

If your parents are anything like my mom, then I feel you running away, liek others have said, won't solve the problem, although I find it nice sometimes just to leave my house for a bit.

Mindfreak

Yeah idk if she's ok though...but I met this one girl i like alot and idk what to do :(

ericj

Ditch the crazy, gonna-kill-herself one, and date the sane one.  ;)  Life will be much more drama-free that way.

Mindfreak

December 17, 2010, 10:14:00 pm #18 Last Edit: December 17, 2010, 10:19:04 pm by Mindfreak
I want to but...this girl is my first love...and my first...well you know...

We have such a connection and she's so shy and timid and i spent a year with her...idk what to do...

She's 16 and we wouldnt be able to be together for 2 years and the nice girl is almost 19 ( :P ) and she makes me smile...i dont wanna hurt my first girl... :(

We had this delusion of running away and being happy and i dont wanna hurt her....

linkzpikachu

the world is an ugly and harsh place. i know you might not wanna hear this but one of my friends gave me some of the best advice ever "you break hearts and you get yours broken, thats life" its harsh but true
FUCK YEAH SEAKING!

Mindfreak

I know but she's my baby...idk what to do :( :( :(

nintendodork

Quote from: ericj on December 17, 2010, 09:49:10 pm
Ditch the crazy, gonna-kill-herself one, and date the sane one.  ;)  Life will be much more drama-free that way.
This.

If you even have to think about it, then she clearly isn't "the one".
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Mindfreak

Well I mean...she's just sad alot and idk what to do...I couldnt be with her for another 2 years anyway...

ericj

People who would threaten bodily harm to themselves because of an action you did, such as break up with them, or because they're depressed, are emotionally holding you hostage. I'd suggest staying out of relationships with codependent, controlling, and manipulative people. It'd also be wise to to introspect and see why you got into a relationship like this and why it's appealing to you.

Mindfreak

I guess your right...

I just miss her is all...but now its over...

And I have a date with that nice girl at 3 :)

linkzpikachu

AWESOME! glad everything worked out (sorta) i just hope your parents are more acceptant of this "nice girl" than the "harm-myself-bitch girl"
FUCK YEAH SEAKING!

petik1

I think you guys are being a little too harsh on this girl. She obviously has problems, and based on how you got over real quick, I'd guess that you were glad to end it with her. Anyway, I wish her and you the best.

Mindfreak

It's taken me 2 months to get over her...not easy :(

But she's happier and so am I.

We just tried to keep it a secret and it didnt really work  :-[


ericj

Good to hear, dude. Sounds like you learned some stuff from the whole experience.  :)

Mindfreak

I just hope she'll be ok...

PS. My date went great and we're going to see a movie soon....i really like her  ;) ;) ;) ;) ;)